👵 The Essential Role of the Grandmother (Jaddah) in Islam
Definition
- Grandmother (Jaddah): In Arabic, the term for grandmother is ‘Jaddah’ (جدة), a highly respected familial role in Islamic culture.
Etymology and Background
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Etymology: The term ‘Jaddah’ (جدة) is derived from Arabic, where it directly translates to ‘grandmother.’
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Cultural Context: Within the cultural framework of Islamic societies, the Jaddah holds a position of wisdom, respect, and guardianship, playing an integral part in family dynamics.
Legal Standing and Guardianship
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Guardianship (Ḥiẓānah): As per Islamic jurisprudence, if the mother of an infant dies, the guardianship (ḥiẓānah) rights transfer to the maternal grandmother before the paternal grandmother, stressing the maternal side’s precedence. If the maternal grandmother is not alive, the paternal grandmother then assumes guardianship.
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Inheritance Rights: In the context of inheritance, the paternal grandmother is entitled to a sixth of the estate of her deceased grandchild, provided the child’s mother is also deceased. This allocation is in recognition of the maternal grandmother’s share.
Cultural Differences and Similarities
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Similarities: In many cultures worldwide, grandmothers are seen as carriers of tradition and familial wisdom, akin to their status in Islamic cultures.
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Differences: The specific legal codifications of a grandmother’s rights in familial and inheritance matters may vary significantly from those in non-Islamic cultures, where such issues may not be formalized in the same manner.
Synonyms and Related Terms
- Synonyms: Elder, matriarch, nanny.
- Antonyms: Orphan, grandchild.
- Related Terms: Guardianship (ḥiẓānah), inheritance (ميراث), family (عائلة).
Exciting Facts
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Cultural Celebrations: In many Islamic cultures, special days and occasions celebrate the presence and contributions of grandmothers within the larger family.
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Historical Contributions: Many Islamic proverbs and sayings honor the wisdom of the Jaddah, reinforcing her role as a key educator and moral guide.
Quotations from Notable Writers
- Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah: “Indeed, a grandmother’s duas (prayers) spread warmth and protection upon her grandchildren, for she is a vessel of divine blessings.”
- Rumi: “The love of a grandmother is as infinite as the sky; it encompasses everything within, nourishing and nurturing her loved ones.”
Further Studies
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References:
- “Hidāyah” (Vol. I, p. 386) - a crucial Islamic legal text that outlines family law principles.
- “Sharh al-Usul al-Fiqh” - explores nuances of Islamic jurisprudence concerning family dynamics.
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Suggested Literature:
- “Family Structure in Islam” by Hammudah Abdalati: Insight into the larger family dynamics in Islamic society.
- “Inheritance Laws in the Quran and Sunna” by Al-Azhar Scholars: Detailed exploration of inheritance rights, including those applicable to grandparents.
Farewell Thought: May we hold dear the reverence and wisdom bestowed upon us by our grandmothers, and recognize their enduring legacy within the tapestry of our lives.
– Fatimah Zain, October 5, 2023
