Definition:
In Islam, a mother holds a revered status and is the subject of numerous references within the Qurʾān and Hadith. The mother is often seen as a primary caregiver and a figure of immense respect and compassion. The reverence is such that paradise is said to lie at the feet of one’s mother, emphasizing the spiritual and social importance of her role.
Etymology:
The words commonly used in Arabic to denote a mother include “Umm” (أم) and “Walidah” (والدة). “Umm” is often used in broader senses to signify nurturing and origin, whilst “Walidah” underscores the biological aspect of giving birth.
Background:
Families in Islamic culture are encouraged to treat their mothers with the utmost respect and kindness. This concept is rooted in the Qurʾān. For instance, Sūrah Al-Ahqaf (46:15) states: “We enjoined upon man to be dutiful and good to his parents. His mother bore him in hardship and gave birth to him in hardship…”
Islamic teachings encapsulate the notions of sacrifice, compassion, and the integral role of the mother in upbringing and enforcing moral and spiritual values. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) famously relayed that one’s mother is to be revered thrice over one’s father in matters of kindness.
Cultural Differences and Similarities:
Differences:
- Western Cultures: Often emphasize an ideal of independence, leading to separate living arrangements for elders.
- Eastern Cultures: Similar to Islamic cultures, there is a heavier emphasis on filial piety and multigenerational households.
Similarities:
- In many cultures, the mother is often seen as the caregiver and nurturer, creating a common ground of reverence and respect.
Synonyms:
- Maternal
- Caregiver
- Nourisher
- Protector
Antonyms:
- Neglecter
- Abandoner
Related Terms:
- Umm (أم): Arabic for mother, broadly used for any nurturing figure.
- Rahmah (رحمة): Mercy or compassion, often associated with the nurturing nature of a mother.
- Birr al-Walidayn (بر الوالدين): The idea of showing kindness and respect to one’s parents.
Exciting Facts:
- It is commonly said that Paradise lies at the feet of mothers, underscoring their importance in Islamic tradition.
- Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) often emphasized the respect and obedience owed to mothers through various Hadith.
Quotations:
- Islamic Proverb: “Heaven lies under the feet of mothers.”
- The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH): “Your mother, your mother, your mother, then your father.”
Further References:
- Qurʾān: Sūrah Al-Ahqāf (46:15), Sūrah Luqmān (31:14), and Sūrah An-Nisā’ (4:1)
- Hadith Collections: Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim.
- Books:
- “Motherhood in Islam” by Abdur-Rahman Al-Sheha.
- “Women and the Koran: The Status of Women in Islam” by Anju Mishra.
- “Love, Marriage, and Family in the Middle Ages” by Jacqueline Murray.
Quizzes:
Continue to respect and show kindness to those who have given us life and nurtured us with grace and compassion. The understanding and reverence of motherhood is a universal language of love and respect.
Your devoted assistant in learning, Aisha Khatib
